Here's what 20 women had to say about why they like giving blowjobs
You've already heard from our sex experts, but now, let's hear from women who personally love giving blowjobs. Here's what some of them said on Reddit.
"I LOVE SUCKING dick, I love what it does to my partner, I actually enjoy the taste and feeling. However ... 10+ minutes is just sore jaw and praying they cum soon. For me it's very much a warm up and/or a finisher. During penetrative sex my partner is very generous and I often feel a bit selfish, so that's my way of giving back."
"I LOVE GIVING my boyfriend a BJ, not because the act itself turns me on, but because I know it turns him on. And that turns me on, lmao. I like doing it because I like making him feel good, and giving head lets me fully concentrate on that. The same goes for him, when he gives me oral (or does anything else to me) he doesn't expect anything in return. And I think this is exactly why I love sucking his dick, specifically."
"LOVE GIVING MY current boyfriend a BJ. Watching him roll his eyes back—and then his compliments after—always makes me feel great. Him kissing me after and loving every minute of it makes it more than worth my sore throat."
"BECAUSE I LIKE receiving, and it would be shitty of me to expect enthusiasm down there if I wasn't willing to go to town on a guy's junk myself."
"TURNS ME ON, makes me feel sexy. I love feeling a guy grow hard for me. I suppose it's also a control thing."
“I FEEL IN-CONTROL... but most importantly, I just love pleasing him. My boyfriend is currently working 65-70 hour weeks, manual labor. He’s exhausted when he comes home. He eats dinner, plays on the computer 30-45 minutes, then drags himself to bed. He’s doing all this so I don’t have to worry about working while I’m in school. So, a few times a week, he gets a BJ. He’s too tired for sex, but that release helps him sleep, and keep his stress levels in check. I occasionally get sex in the process but not like we used to. That’s ok. This season of our lives will be over soon, and things will get back to normal.”
"I LOVE PLEASING a man. I love hearing him moan. I love being in control of his pleasure. I love insisting that he relax and let me do this! I love the feeling of him inside of me. I love feeling him grow as he becomes more excited! I love the intimate connection that we form. And I love the taste of cum."
"IT'S INTIMATE AND deeply satisfying. I like the feeling of having a hard or soft penis in my mouth. It's fulfilling for me."
"I LOVE SUCKING it from softness to hardness. It's so exciting feeling it growing in my mouth."
"I LOVE HAERING a man moan and cum because of what I'm doing to him...but the moans are the best part. It sucks when a man isn't vocal."
"I ALWAYS ENJOYED the feeling of giving pleasure to my partner with oral, but only in the past few years did that grow into more of a serious kink. I only really watch blowjob porn. If I am thinking about sex, it is about blowjobs. If I am having sex, (not always but most of the time,) I am thinking about giving him head. It is pretty much my number one desire in the bedroom now. I love deep-throating the most and all the other frills that go with it. But light teasing sessions are also really great, the slow build up for both of us is very exciting. I have absolutely no idea why I like it so much, I just do, but I have never had any complaints so never really worried."
"GUYS TEND TO be quiet and reserved with most sex acts, except blowjobs. We get responsive as hell reactions from you in this activity more than any other with minimal effort or personal distraction. Makes a girl feel sexy, and as such more likely to want more. Theres also a sense of power."
"WE HAVE YOU at our mercy."
"CUM TASTES AMAZING. There's something to be said about making a man quake when all you do is roll your tongue around and purr to make your mouth vibrate. I also love the fact that it drives him wild when I do it."
"I'VE ALWAYS HATED blowjobs and refused to do it. The most recent guy I'm with has an amazing dick. Its so beautiful and looking at it makes my mouth water. I love how it feels in my mouth, how he swears when my mouth goes on him. He smiles so happily and it makes me happy for making him happy."
"I'M A PLEASER in the bedroom so it really turns me on when I know that I'm turning the guy on. I love preforming oral more than I like receiving it because of the reactions. I wanna see your head fall back, I wanna see your eyes close and open repeatedly, I wanna hear you moan and groan, I want you to tell me what to do and how to please you. Plus foreplay is my favorite part of sex. The simulation and knowing that someone enjoys what I'm doing to them. If my jaw didn't get so cramped easily, I'd do it for as long as the guy wants."
"I USED TO find it very boring. I knew it should be fun, because you get to feel in control. But I didn't get that vibe. Then I realized: what's the point of a blowjob if he's not tied up? With a new kinkier lover I can't get enough of it. Get those limbs under control with some rope and there isn't anything stopping me from playing for a couple of hours before finally allowing relief :)"
"PERSONALLY, I ENJOY going down in my husband because I not only have control, I am also showing him in action just how much I love and appreciate him and everything he does for our family. I feel that head is a very intimate act, and it definitely helps get the point across. I also enjoy giving him a blowjob because it's a great stress reliever as well. I like knowing that he can come home to me and I can make his stress fall away with just one action. But most of all, when I take care of him, he always returns the favor. ;)"
"THE FEELING OF knowing my attention is solely concentrated on the most tender parts of him and he trusts me. The way he looks at me, the noises and movements he makes, knowing when he is going to orgasm and feeling this satisfaction that it's something we enjoy together. The fact he tastes amazing and it can be hot and slutty or sensual and slow. It's just the fucking best to be honest. And he knows I love it. Like I don't think I would ever say no to it because I just want him to feel that good because of me."
"I LIKE IT because it's both dominating and submissive at the same time. I love the sounds he makes, and the way he grabs my hair. I love the way he feels in my mouth. He is so generous in making me feel good, that I like it doing it for him. And yes, I swallow."
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